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Wednesday, January 13 2010

Portable Marley Floors Are About as Portable as a Phone Booth

I wish I had more time to write.

Actually, I wish I had more time to write research papers and my dissertation. (Yesterday I was asked whether I had backups of my dissertation, and backups of the backups. My dissertation is three and a half pages long. I'm not very worried about losing them.)

Come to think of it, I wish I had more time to do basic things like, oh, I don't know, eating lunch. Or sleeping. Come to think of it, going to the bathroom whenever I feel like it would be a great improvement.

So, yeah, research.

And organizing a dance mixer.

And putting a swing dance club together.

Talking about putting things together, did you ever put a portable Marley floor together? Just think about 40 tiles of 2.5 foot by 2.5 foot, each of which weighing about 3 pounds. And having to lay them carefully next to each other and velcro them all together once you've carried them. And moved the tables and chair against the wall.

I solemnly announced it to my fellow swing dancers and will repeat here: never again.

Although it was worth it.

Except for the part towards the end of the evening when the elements started coming seriously apart and I tripped over. Don't trip while doing cross kicks, because your partner doesn't have a hold on you is all what I'm saying.

Anyway, great things happening.

I might even make it to the end of the week without strangling anybody. But more because I'll be too tired for it than because they won't deserve it.

Friday, January 8 2010

A Text Conversation

Between me and my swing dance partner, the day after we both discovered West Coast Swing together (a sweet, sweet birthday present).

Me: "Dude. One could totally dance west coast to Ace of Base."

Him: "Ace of Base? You ARE old. Wait, are you texting me on a Friday night, when you know I'm with friends skiing, to tell me that?"

Me: "Can't help it if you're a kid. Like you don't enjoy telling your friends you're getting texts from the girl you held in your arms most of the evening yesterday."

Him: "I can't believe I actually missed you."

Me: "Good night, my dear. Enjoy some mulled wine for me."

Totally worth my money.

Sunday, January 3 2010

Plans for 2010

  • Become a doctor
  • Move back to Europe
  • Do my best to be happy while doing so

I think that should be enough for a year. Optionally, I'd like to learn how to dance balboa.

A beautiful 2010 to all of you who read these pages. May it be filled with laughter, tenderness, and smiles.

Saturday, November 14 2009

Daily Snippets

In all seriousness, I should be writing a deep, emotional text about blues dancing. I took a fifteen minutes class in the little room above my favorite dance club and that's all I needed to fall in love.

With blues dancing, that is, not my partner.

Although he does have amazingly soft hands and a swell sense of rhythm.

(Yes, my life revolves around research and dancing. I could imagine much worse even if I can understand that it bores you to tears.)

Or I could write about the responsibility of being taken, together with a good friend of mine, as roles models by a much younger girl. But I'm so confused with my own thoughts about this topic that I am going to avoid it for now.

So all you're left with are these short conversation excerpts. Disclaimer: not always the same "Him".

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Tuesday, November 10 2009

I Was Wrong

He let me do it again. I did not even ask, he ran to me when I had no partner and told me to keep leading. In class, where the dance teacher was very impressed that a man who was just taking this little class (as opposed to aspiring to becoming a professional) would let a girl lead him and other people witness it. "Good follows make good leads", he told the both of us appreciatively.

Me? I'm waiting for him to ask another guy to lead him to be impressed.

Now I'll let you ponder why, at least in occidental cultures, guys are so afraid of touching each other even in a situation that's all about acting and performing, unless it involves fighting.

Sunday, November 8 2009

I Think That Was a Good Weekend

Although right now I am suffering from the well known Sunday evening syndrome, the consequence of having exchanged about ten face to face sentences with a real person for the entire day, being sleep deprived, not having accomplished as much as I wanted, and the sun setting at a completely unreasonable hour.

There has been dancing, good dancing at that, despite the old creeper earlier described. Dancing was continued on Saturday, when I got to work on the new moves learned the night before, practice my leading, and the sweetest of all, leading a guy. I'm still a worthless lead but he is a terrible follow and I suspect we were looking like two drunken college kids — I was too busy telling him on which foot to be to pay attention to the mirrors, and that was probably a good thing. I don't think he'll ever let me do it again, but at least we had a good laugh and I'm pretty sure he'll stop complaining that I mess up my footwork when switching between lead and follow.

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Monday, October 26 2009

And a Big Panama With a Purple Hat Band!

Some work days are really, really worse than others. You keep bumping into technical problems, and looking for workarounds where none should be needed, and having to debug a stupid piece of code you yourself wrote poorly, and before you know it it is night already and you have lost your damn day.

Despite the fact that you went to a very interesting talk earlier on, attended a good class, and actually solved the heck out or four problems that should never have existed in the first place.

You're in such a poorly mood that you have to drag yourself out of your apartment to get your butt to swing dance class, when swing is your favorite dance of all times and you absolutely love that class. But drag yourself you do, and boy are you right to. Because what a blast! You push the door of this dance room and it's a different world entirely.

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I read

Mostly detective stories. Occassionally, weird fantasy, theater, or Chinese literature in Italian (I have fantastic friends), real well-written books.

I listen to

Mof Montreal, Caravan Palace, the Ditty Bops, Dango Reinhardt, the National, Minor Majority, Léo Ferré, Beethoven, Sonny Rollins, Laura Marling, Erlend Øye, Hjaltalin, Sufjan Stevens, Yuri Bashmet. And others.

I am

late, I'm late, I'm late for a very important date, delighted by Oscar Wilde (One should always be a little improbable), a little improbable, still very much of a bloody leftist, heathen atheist, and a woman scientist.

Deep Thought

'To leave is to die a little. But to die is to leave a lot' (translated from French)
[Alphonse Allais]

(Almost) Legal Mentions

(Dammit this one joke only works in French. You're missing out.)
Not recommended for children under 36 months.
Please handle carefully.
Beware of the kitty.
Objects in the mirror are closer than they appear.*
 
* Strike out if inapplicable